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Workplace Bullying: Psychological Violence?

Thank you

Scientist
EPA
Wed Dec 3, 2008 8:24 AM

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Great article.
I've witnessed this first hand: several of my managers and colleagues bully one of our secretaries. It's gotten ridiculous, and upper management and our union have done nothing to help her.

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Fed
DoD
Wed Dec 3, 2008 9:02 AM
Then that secy does have some avenues of redress:

- Is she being bullied in a way that singles her out? IOW, is she the oldest staffer, or the only staffer of color, etc? Then the abuse becomes discriminatory.

- She should ask her union local to see if the misbehavior has violated the existing labor agreement--then she can file a grievance. Or, if it's really egregious, it can be classified as an unfair labor practice. She should also consult a labor law atty if all else fails.

She's likely lost hope b/c of mgt's misdeeds. I know b/c it happened to me too. I was singled out b/c of physical disabilities that required surgical intervention, and I was denied leave and accommodation. I got lucky, though: the supvr was a crook, I caught and "outed" him, and he's no longer in place.

Not that others didn't try to remove me, despite over 20 yrs of exemplary federal service. But I knew how to defend myself. I was just unlucky enough to get old, good work notwithstanding...

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Patient Support
VA
Wed Dec 3, 2008 9:56 AM
You evidently feel sympathy for this worker. Many times I've been in a situation where if just one person would corroborate what I've said, it would've meant everything. Perhaps you could at least offer testimony on her behalf or even file a hostile workplace suit. Sometimes people need someone to stand up for them. You could be the one.

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Union Official
DoD
Wed Dec 3, 2008 3:21 PM
And before you or anyone steps up to the plate, remember:

Any time you take a stand to defend yourself or help someone else, expect consequences. Forget about promotions b/c it won't happen. Just remember that if this is happening to you, you aren't getting promoted anyway, so you may as well pursue the matter.

Your wkg r'ships will likely change, and it 's a good way to find out which co-workers "have your back" (if any, b/c I know I don't).

It can get ugly, b/c even if the slime is a bona-fide bully and incompetent, mgt will protect him/her b/c, incompetent or not, he's/she's THEIR incompetent bully so they're obligated to stand by them.

And remember that there's more than 1 way to win. No matter which redress you take--grievance, complaint, ULP--SOMEthing will change as a result. It'll take time, but if you can hang tough and assess the Big Picture, you'll see the truth of that statement in due time.

Bullying

HR Consultant
Various Federal agencies
Wed Dec 3, 2008 8:28 AM

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This is an excellent article. The subject of bullying should be included in all workplace violence training. Agencies having tables of penalties that include engaging in workplace violence should consider including it as an example. I experienced it as a Federal employee and has seen others suffer from it as well.

Bullying

Labor Relations Assistant
IRS
Wed Dec 3, 2008 8:43 AM

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My Supervisor has told me that "I should be thankful that he selected me cause no one else wants me." He has told me that "I will never be a Specialist because I do not impress him enough." He has his clerks going through my desk constantly. He has made unreasonable demands on my job. All this was as a result of my standing up for another female employee because he was bullying her with regards to her desk. He came through and told her that she had to get everything personal off her desk and then he told her he was coming after me. So when he did I asked where the Directive was that said I could not have anything personal on my desk and he said he issued a Directive and I had to follow it. I could go on but those are just some of the highlights. Yes, I am sick every day coming to work, I cry all the way home. I get no praise, always telling me what I did wrong. I have notified his superiors and have filed and EEO complaint.

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Program Analyst
OPM
Wed Dec 3, 2008 9:49 AM
At least you have taken some recourse. Take it from me, I worked with someone like this, he was eventually canned. This guy's time will come. Same stupid arrogant crap--thinking that just because he is the "manager" he can change agency policy like what is allowed on desks or break times. He doens't have the right or the authority to even make those claims...unless, of course, it is obscene or it interferes with your work.

Workplace Bullying

Paralegal Specialist
USPS
Wed Dec 3, 2008 8:46 AM

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I was the victim of a workplace bully, a subordinate who was supposed to be supporting me in a project, but instead did her best to sabotage the entire enterprise, because she was disappointed that she had not been allowed to handle it herself, instead of being assigned to assist me. She delayed performing requested tasks for weeks, then turned in subpar work that I either had to return to her for corrections -- requiring additional delays -- or fix myself. If I dared to inquire about the status of one of these tasks, she would bawl me out and suggest I might want to do it myself. When I did it myself, she would also bawl me out and complain to management that I was trying to undermine HER. Management dismissed my complaints about her as some type of personality conflict. I finally had to take the bull by the horns and send the offender a blistering email -- laying it all out -- copied to all management, to get some relief. They split the tasks among us, instead of firing her.

Bullies

Material Handler
USDA Forest Service
Wed Dec 3, 2008 8:51 AM

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I work with three male bullies, one of which is considered a semi-permanent employee and the other two are permanent employees like myself. We also have an instigator in the same shop. The supervision is passive. I am the only female employee on the warehouse floor. One of the bullies is my Workl leader, but all three have exhibited the examples listed in your article. We currently have 15 employees and there is no morale. We have all said that the WL needs anger management classes that should be tied to his appraisal. Then mgmt needs to send him to leadership classes. He leads by fear and intimidation, but I am the only that is expected to lead by example.

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Former Union Rep.-Currently a Supervisor
USFS
Wed Dec 3, 2008 12:34 PM
I can't speak for every agency but I can for the FS union. There are good reps out there. I became a very educated one as a result of my own experiences. I've had some real winners for supervisors. Learn your rights! Read the Master Agreement. With the internet you can locate a good rep in your region. Document, include witnesses. Documentation can go a loooong ways in defending yourself. Empower yourself so you can feel in control. Use the EAP program. Don't let the bully win at their game. There are good supervisors out there. It's not all bad!

Bullying

worker
government
Wed Dec 3, 2008 8:54 AM

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Your comments are on point.
Management will not stop an incompetent manager from bullying a worker. This manager did things against the norm and violated the rules. Management said it was in his power or burried the actions with baloney.
When management does not want to promote a worker, management will find a way to do so. When management wants to promote an incompetent worker who sucks up to the manager it will find a way to do so. I have seen both.
I will not go into details at this time to remain unidentifiable, as I have been retaliated against.

WORKPLACE BULLYING

PROGRAM SPECIALIST
OSM
Wed Dec 3, 2008 9:05 AM

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Years back I experienced this type of behavior from of all people a supervisor. Untill it happens to you, it is difficult to expain how it can and does have a psychological affect on you. It affects all aspects of your job from how you perform your duties, to your social interactions with other staff employees (or lack of) etc. You become paranoid. I am now of retirement age with service time and still harbor those feelings however to a much lesser extent. I must add this supervisor had to take a disability retirement years back due to a psychological condition but the damage was already done.

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SCARED
VA
Wed Dec 3, 2008 10:03 AM
I TOTALLY identify with what you're saying. I, too, had a supervisor who bullied me, harassed me, and fit nearly every example. She tried to get me fired by lying, which was something I never expected. Since then, I've become very paranoid and it interferes with what I do. The worst part is, I got a reputation that is with me still. My self-confidence has been shattered and I can't wait to retire.

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SSC
FS
Fri Dec 5, 2008 10:09 AM
I, too, totally identify. Though not at my current agency, I had a supervisor who bullied me, lied about my work in front of our superiors and coworkers (with me in the meeting) to cover her inefficiency. I might add that for the previous 12 yrs, (she was a new supervisor from the FS) I received outstanding/superior evals and recd special awards for taking on addl work and recd perf awards each yr. I had been dealing with the 'bullying' and inefficiencies of this supv for a long time. When I saw the Director's face, I couldn't take it any more, so I 'inappropriately' stomped out of the mtg and went home. I couldn't believe he may actually believe her instead of me, a 13 yr empl w/outstanding work history. The Dir later told me he was trying to support her/give her a chance. I kind of understand his efforts but I ultimately had to leave the job I loved 6 mos later. The 'Bullier' later filed a grievance against this Dir for non-support. 5 Yrs later I still hurt terribly!
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