'I Don’t Want Your Sacrifice, I Need Your Gift.' Signed, A Grateful Nation

By on October 29, 2015 in Current Events, Leadership with 10 Comments

Those who come to government service are a special breed. We’re here because of a call to service, a desire to give back, and an intent to leave the world a better place than we found it.

As we come on board with our respective organizations we expect, and are even eager, to make certain sacrifices in the service of our agency and our country. In fact, MOST of our organizations have the word sacrifice somewhere in the either the Vision, Mission, or Values statements.

I hate to break it to you though…

I believe that sacrifice is the one thing that we do NOT need, or even want, from our federal employees.

Calm down! Before you label me a heretic, a traitor, or someone looking collect more for less, hear me out…

Sacrifice means giving of oneself from a place of scarcity or lack. Whether that giving is in terms of money, time, energy, or physical well-being, it assumes a giving, willingly or otherwise, from a source that has finite boundaries. Because of those finite boundaries, at some point there will be nothing left to give. The cup is empty. We simply cannot pour out any more. When that cup is empty, we are left tired, bored, frustrated, depressed, and wondering, “Why did I sacrifice so much in the first place? Did everything I gave up really even matter?”

So what if instead of asking government employees to sacrifice, we instead asked them to give?

What’s the difference, you ask, between sacrifice and giving?

The difference is that a gift comes from a place of abundance, even excess. We have different talents, skills, abilities, and loves that come together to create who we are as people and as employees. As we cultivate each of those things within ourselves beginning with the things that matter most to us, we continually fill our cup. Our service is no longer a “pouring out” of finite resources but rather a “spilling over” of unlimited abundance doing what we love in the service of those who love what we do.

While there are steps that organizations can take to facilitate the process (a different topic for a different day), the creation of an engaged, on purpose, abundant work force, is not up to the organization. It is up to us as individuals to create that reality for ourselves.

We are the individuals who protect our borders, who create the face of our nation abroad, who insure that our veterans, our elderly, and our under-privileged are cared for, who insure that our nation’s fiscal resources are managed responsibly, who preserve our natural lands, and who perform countless other roles creating a nation that, while not perfect, we believe is the best deal going.

When we recognize the enormity of our endeavor, we realize that it is impossible for us to sacrifice enough to face the challenges ahead of us. The only way that we can sustain our missions for the long haul is to give, of our time, energy, talent, and love, from our individual overflow.

So what does it mean to give from our individual overflow? The answer might sound counterintuitive… or worse, self-serving. It means being absolutely clear on what matters most to you, what makes your heart sing, and consistently choosing in favor of that. As you begin to focus on those things that you are good at, that bring you joy, and that make you smile, you’ll find yourself naturally led to the place where your specific gifts are of highest service.

Your gifts will spill over on to the work you do, the people you work with, and the people who mean the most to you both personally and professionally. There will be no limit to your time, your energy, your creativity, or your possibilities because you are giving from abundance.

If you’re realizing that your cup is empty – and you’re looking for a way to refill it – I’ve got an opportunity for you. And it’s FREE! I’m cordially inviting you to join me on the Greatness In Government campus, a virtual campus of government employees that supports your gifts and understands the unique opportunities and challenges facing those of us in government service, at www.FreeGiftfromMartha.com.

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About the Author

With more than 24 years as a federal employee, first as an active duty Army officer and later a Foreign Service officer, staff leadership instructor and professional coach, Martha understands what it means to simultaneously feel inspired by the desire to serve and stifled by the “needs of the service.” Martha is on a mission to create public institutions that ignite success, prosperity and joy for EVERYONE they touch – especially those in them.

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